Long Distance Relationships

A couple of days ago, i got a question asking me "would you rather have a LDR or a boyfriend who you see everyday and is a little obsessed?" This was my answer: I honestly, did not know how to answer this. But after thinking i answered "I dont really know how to answer this. Most people would say "the one who is a little obsessed but lives close" I honestly dont care as long as us both are willing to work on the relationship then it shouldn't matter, how far apart you are from each other. Long distance relationships aren't a huge deal, I mean I get it you probably dont really see them that often since they do live far away. But If our love is mutual and we BOTH are willing to make it work. I would rather go with the long distance relationship."  ^^ All of that kinda explains everything. If you dont know what a LDR is (long distance relationship---which most people already know) a romantic relationship between two people who live far apart and so are unable to meet on a frequent basis.I personally actually find it adorable that people are in long distance relationships. They dont have to be together every second of the day and if you love the other person enough to only talk to him and see his face on a screen.. I think that every one with a LDR are amazing people. 

"Perfect Boyfriend"

Perfect boyfriends dont exist. We imagine people and call them perfect, because we dont know other word to describe them. Nobody is perfect. Even though in the Urban Dictionary: Perfect boyfriend means: Someone who is simply amazing, takes your breath away, leaves you with a smile on your face. The boy of your dreams. Someone who'll always be there for you, cheers you up, never makes you upsets, doesn't lie or cheat. ALWAYS honest. Reminds you how lucky he is to have you, tells you how beautiful you are regardless what you look like. The boy you never want to lose. The one you love no matter what and he loves you no matter what. 
This doesn't make them perfect. So someone who tells white lies aren't perfect? It just doesn't make sense. The definition of perfect is: having all the required or desirable elements, qualities, or characteristics; as good as it is possible to be. 
So your saying if someone doesnt have the best qualities or characteristics your not perfect. I believe everyone is perfect in their own way inside and out. But "perfect boyfriend"... Its saying that guys have to do these thing in order to be categorized as perfect. I may be wrong and it might sound stupid but it should be called a good/great boyfriend. No matter what guys do they shouldnt be pressured into doing these things just so they could be called "The Perfect Boyfriend" 

Is love worth it?

 I've never had a big experience with love. I think love is somewhat pointless. You dont need to grow up thinking about who your going to marry, how many children your going to have, and who will be your "true love." In the future I might experience love but that probably wont change my feelings for it. Love messes people up. One guy could hurt you and break your heart and for a while you'll always be fragile and feel that pain. I know people who have boyfriends/girlfriends are going to read this and disagree with me, but this is my opinion and i just dont see the point of love. You dont need love, if you find it maybe that's gods way of saying "your special so im going to give you something special." Love could be special, but if you dont have it or never had it, your heart doesn't really feel likes it missing something. Why struggle to find love and happiness with another person? Of course there is always a chance of getting hurt. None likes getting hurt. So why do people try to find love if most of the time they're going to get hurt? Some people say they liked feeling loved. If that's true, then obviously you dont love yourself for who you are. In that case, how can someone love you if you dont even love yourself? I saw someone write this "Like water and food, love is needed by humans in order that we survive. Without it, we will be lost." In this case, why are people not in love and living a happy and healthy life? After we break up with someone we fifty percent of the time complain how we regret it. Is it really worth it? Why would you go out with them if you'd regret it in the future? Love for another person is different then love your mother, father, family members etc.  Love isn't important passion is.