I've never had a big experience with love. I think love is somewhat pointless. You dont need to grow up thinking about who your going to marry, how many children your going to have, and who will be your "true love." In the future I might experience love but that probably wont change my feelings for it. Love messes people up. One guy could hurt you and break your heart and for a while you'll always be fragile and feel that pain. I know people who have boyfriends/girlfriends are going to read this and disagree with me, but this is my opinion and i just dont see the point of love. You dont need love, if you find it maybe that's gods way of saying "your special so im going to give you something special." Love could be special, but if you dont have it or never had it, your heart doesn't really feel likes it missing something. Why struggle to find love and happiness with another person? Of course there is always a chance of getting hurt. None likes getting hurt. So why do people try to find love if most of the time they're going to get hurt? Some people say they liked feeling loved. If that's true, then obviously you dont love yourself for who you are. In that case, how can someone love you if you dont even love yourself? I saw someone write this "Like water and food, love is needed by humans in order that we survive. Without it, we will be lost." In this case, why are people not in love and living a happy and healthy life? After we break up with someone we fifty percent of the time complain how we regret it. Is it really worth it? Why would you go out with them if you'd regret it in the future? Love for another person is different then love your mother, father, family members etc. Love isn't important passion is.